Coaching Challenge: the Resistant Client

A coach was hired by a company to work with one of their employees because their performance was no longer meeting expectations.  The company hired the coach because they wanted to keep the employee.  The employee thought the coach was there to facilitate their leaving.

Previously a solid performer, the employee had been placed on a Performance Improvement Plan, PIP, because of a poor attitude and insubordination.  The coach was provided with a copy of the employee’s PIP.  The employee was told when and where to meet with the coach.

In the first coaching session, the employee was angry and resentful.  They expressed frustration with their job and the people there.  The coach gave the employee space to vent and then asked what they wanted happening.  The response from the employee was angry; they said that what they wanted did not matter as they were going to lose their job anyway.  The employee talked about how the boss was out to get them and their co-workers were rude.

What would you do?  Sometimes coaches hesitate to take on a client in these circumstances because of the barriers to establishing trust and actually working on meaningful goals.

If a client is resistant, what are the possibilities?  In the next blog post the approach for this coaching engagement is revealed.

Cathy Liska

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Most blog posts here are written or curated by Cathy Liska, Guide from the Side®, CDP, MCC.

Cathy is CEO/Founder of the Center for Coaching Certification, CCC. As Guide from the Side®, she is a sought-after trainer and coach with over 30 years of experience in business management and ownership. Cathy built her diverse team at CCC that includes trainers, customer service, and coaches. She was Co-Leader for ICF’s Ethics Community of Practice, on the Leadership Team for the review and updating of the Code of Ethics in 2024, and active in the Ethics Water Cooler. To ensure she stays current in related areas of expertise, Cathy has earned the following: ICF’s Master Certified Coach (MCC), Certified Coach Trainer, Certified Consumer Credit Counselor, Certificate of Excellence in Nonprofit Leadership and Management, Grief Support Group Facilitator, Certified in the Drucker Self-Assessment Tool, Certified Apartment Manager, Certified Civil and Family Mediator, and Certified in DISC.

Cathy’s clients range from attorneys to corporate executives, government to nonprofit, entrepreneurs to children, under or unemployed to newly retired. She specializes in communication, management, conflict, and leadership. Her personal mission statement is “People.” Cathy is known for her passion to serve others so they achieve the results they want.

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