The Symbiotic Relationship of Being and Doing

The Symbiotic Relationship of Being and Doing

Newly trained and the more seasoned masterful coaches face similar complexities when dealing with clients.  How can a coach balance their own biases and beliefs in service to their clients?

Some coaches use an approach that supports a focus on either being or doing based on who is paying the coach. The Symbiotic Relationship of Being and Doing

Sometimes coaches believe that coaching is all about – and only about – specific goals, strategies, and action steps.  If this is the case, then typically only short-term, limited success is possible.

Sometimes coaches believe that coaching is about problems and they slip into therapy or counseling.  In this case, the potential for causing harm is high and at best the forward progress is limited.

Alternatively, the coach focuses completely – and only – on exploring the inner being, thoughts, values, and purpose.  This creates self-awareness while falling short of action for real change.

When the coaching includes both the being and the doing with a focus on the desired future, then long-term meaningful change that benefits the client is achieved.  How does a coach integrate both the being and doing in their coaching approach?

In this blog series, we will explore the what and the how of coaching both the being and the doing through the story of one client who works with three different types of coaches.

 

Cathy Liska

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Most blog posts here are written or curated by Cathy Liska, Guide from the Side®, CDP, MCC.

Cathy is CEO/Founder of the Center for Coaching Certification, CCC. As Guide from the Side®, she is a sought-after trainer and coach with over 30 years of experience in business management and ownership. Cathy built her diverse team at CCC that includes trainers, customer service, and coaches. She was Co-Leader for ICF’s Ethics Community of Practice, on the Leadership Team for the review and updating of the Code of Ethics in 2024, and active in the Ethics Water Cooler. To ensure she stays current in related areas of expertise, Cathy has earned the following: ICF’s Master Certified Coach (MCC), Certified Coach Trainer, Certified Consumer Credit Counselor, Certificate of Excellence in Nonprofit Leadership and Management, Grief Support Group Facilitator, Certified in the Drucker Self-Assessment Tool, Certified Apartment Manager, Certified Civil and Family Mediator, and Certified in DISC.

Cathy’s clients range from attorneys to corporate executives, government to nonprofit, entrepreneurs to children, under or unemployed to newly retired. She specializes in communication, management, conflict, and leadership. Her personal mission statement is “People.” Cathy is known for her passion to serve others so they achieve the results they want.

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