How Coaches Phrase Questions – 2 of 3

The question “anything else?” invites a yes or no answer. The question “what else?” invites consideration of additional possibilities. When a coach asks closed-ended questions, they limit client thinking by either stopping additional consideration or indicating that other thoughts might best be saved for later. With open-ended questions the coach empowers the client to explore, consider possibilities, and make their own choices.

Imagine a conversation between a coach and a client where the client states, “I am overwhelmed.” A follow-up question might be, “Are you worried that you are unable to handle the load?” This interprets what is behind the initial statement and includes some judgment. It may throw a client off-track because they do not understand the question. A well-trained coach will instead say something like, “Tell me more.” The client then continues their thought process and shares what is happening. Overwhelmed could be overwhelmed with joy, concern, gratitude, tasks, priorities, etc. The first example of a response jumps to a conclusion, the second seeks clarification.

In a quality training program, coaches learn how to ask questions so that the client is empowered to think, consider different perspectives, and choose their own course of action. A skilled coach starts with the premise that the client is their own best expert.

Cathy Liska

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Most blog posts here are written or curated by Cathy Liska, Guide from the Side®, CDP, MCC.

Cathy is CEO/Founder of the Center for Coaching Certification, CCC. As Guide from the Side®, she is a sought-after trainer and coach with over 30 years of experience in business management and ownership. Cathy built her diverse team at CCC that includes trainers, customer service, and coaches. She was Co-Leader for ICF’s Ethics Community of Practice, on the Leadership Team for the review and updating of the Code of Ethics in 2024, and active in the Ethics Water Cooler. To ensure she stays current in related areas of expertise, Cathy has earned the following: ICF’s Master Certified Coach (MCC), Certified Coach Trainer, Certified Consumer Credit Counselor, Certificate of Excellence in Nonprofit Leadership and Management, Grief Support Group Facilitator, Certified in the Drucker Self-Assessment Tool, Certified Apartment Manager, Certified Civil and Family Mediator, and Certified in DISC.

Cathy’s clients range from attorneys to corporate executives, government to nonprofit, entrepreneurs to children, under or unemployed to newly retired. She specializes in communication, management, conflict, and leadership. Her personal mission statement is “People.” Cathy is known for her passion to serve others so they achieve the results they want.

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