{"id":8933,"date":"2020-12-17T11:02:00","date_gmt":"2020-12-17T11:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/?p=8933"},"modified":"2020-11-03T21:05:04","modified_gmt":"2020-11-03T21:05:04","slug":"positivity-serves-clients","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/positivity-serves-clients\/","title":{"rendered":"Positivity Serves Clients"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Jim Fortner<\/em> &#8211; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tl2llc.com\/\">https:\/\/www.tl2llc.com\/<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-8934 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Jim-Fortner.png\" alt=\"Jim Fortner\" width=\"121\" height=\"121\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Jim-Fortner.png 176w, https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Jim-Fortner-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Jim-Fortner-60x60.png 60w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 121px) 100vw, 121px\" \/><br \/>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<p>A few months ago, a colleague of mine wanted to know if I could do a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coaching.html\">coaching<\/a> session with them.\u00a0 I said sure since I will not turn down someone reaching out to me that was sincere (and not a close friend).\u00a0 We set up a meeting for Microsoft Teams and I asked a few questions beforehand.\u00a0 It turns out they were struggling with time management.\u00a0 Stress was building.\u00a0 They were overwhelmed.<\/p>\n<p>Once we started talking, the first thing I realized was that there was a lot of negativity.\u00a0 I kindly asked if they could use &#8220;positive&#8221; terms while talking about what was going on.\u00a0 What transpired while they spoke about their daily routine was every day was like a repeat of the previous.\u00a0 I asked what did they need to &#8220;jump off the hamster wheel&#8221;?\u00a0 Their reply was they had no time for themselves.\u00a0 We dubbed it &#8220;me time&#8221;.\u00a0 I asked how they had prioritized themselves.\u00a0 We talked about simply setting aside 10 or 15 minutes in the AM to &#8220;get their day started with a clear and positive mind&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Second thing was to review what had happened at the end of the day and plan for tomorrow with themselves as a priority and to look at what had transpired during the day as opportunity.\u00a0 We talked about meditation.\u00a0 They were interested in the possibility and ready to engage.\u00a0 We ended this session discussing the many ways to meditate.<\/p>\n<p>Next was to think of ways to translate what was going on as a positive.\u00a0 Use positive speech. 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