{"id":7856,"date":"2018-04-16T09:05:56","date_gmt":"2018-04-16T09:05:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/?p=7856"},"modified":"2018-03-22T18:25:13","modified_gmt":"2018-03-22T18:25:13","slug":"co-create-the-coaching-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/co-create-the-coaching-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Co-Create the Coaching Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The competencies of Establishing Trust and Intimacy with the Coachee plus Coaching Presence build on your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/ethics-in-coaching-2\/\">ethics<\/a> and agreement with a focus on adjusting your coaching process to the coachee.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-thumbnail wp-image-7409 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/use-and-promote-the-ICF-code-of-ethics-blog-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/use-and-promote-the-ICF-code-of-ethics-blog-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/use-and-promote-the-ICF-code-of-ethics-blog-144x144.jpg 144w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To provide professional coaching services in keeping with these competencies, during the coaching relationship plan to:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask the coachee how they want the relationship to work.\n<ul>\n<li>Give respect to earn it.<\/li>\n<li>Trust in their abilities to be trusted.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>Discuss different approaches.<\/li>\n<li>Ask what the coachee wants specifically.<\/li>\n<li>Define how success is measured.<\/li>\n<li>Explore how to communicate, manage accountability, and celebrate successes.<\/li>\n<li>Experiment:\n<ul>\n<li>Practice with questionnaires as a learning tool and a starting point.<\/li>\n<li>Use different processes including those described here and various techniques when coaching.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>Decide if you are offering blended services:\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/en\/training.html\">Training<\/a> and coaching.<\/li>\n<li>Consulting and coaching.<\/li>\n<li>Other professional services and coaching.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li>Research assessments, decide on certification, know about resources to access.<\/li>\n<li>Practice being present and dancing in the moment with coachees wherein you listen, rephrase, then ask the next question based on where the coachee is at and going.<\/li>\n<li>Refine your skills and tools:\n<ul>\n<li>Tweak questions.<\/li>\n<li>Edit forms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These specific tips are useful in preparing for and providing coaching services.\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\">Coaching certificatio<\/a>n is a great start for setting yourself up to successfully use these tips and in coaching continuing education is part of the Code of Ethics.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The competencies of Establishing Trust and Intimacy with the Coachee plus Coaching Presence build on your ethics and agreement with a focus on adjusting your &hellip; 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