{"id":5534,"date":"2015-03-18T16:06:03","date_gmt":"2015-03-18T16:06:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/centerforcoachingcertification.com\/coachingblog\/?p=5534"},"modified":"2022-09-08T20:27:27","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T20:27:27","slug":"what-does-it-mean-to-be-present-for-a-client","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.coachcert.com\/coachingblog\/what-does-it-mean-to-be-present-for-a-client\/","title":{"rendered":"What Does It Mean To Be Present For A Client?"},"content":{"rendered":"

What Does It Mean To Be Present For A Client?<\/p>\n

It means to be in the now. So what exactly does that mean? A coach focusing upon a client\u2019s verbiage, the choice of expression, the tone of voice, and understanding a client\u2019s perspective is the basis for a coaching relationship. Reflecting back a client\u2019s words, values, and perceptions is being present and builds rapport, one of the most valuable parts in a coaching relationship.<\/p>\n

Comprehending how you listen as a coach takes time to learn. As focus deepens, it may magnify personal habits which inhibit clear understanding. For example, noticing if there is a tendency to find a reply prior to the client finishing a statement is a clear indicator that one is not completely staying focused on the client\u2019s words.<\/p>\n

\"What<\/a>Finding a tool which brings back attention to client centeredness is a fabulous instrument for each coach to encompass. Consider some personal check-ins that will work in terms of bringing the focal point into present listening. Perhaps it is as simple as a check-in like rubbing your thumb across the tips of your fingers as a reminder, pressing your shoes to connect to the floor, or slightly rolling shoulders back. Having some personal action that reinstates the centering upon communication between you and a client is an excellent way to keep the coaching in deep listening mode.<\/p>\n

Active listening, powerful questions, and direct communication all come from being present with each client.<\/p>\n

Example Questions:<\/p>\n